Abacengenzi mu miryango: Inyigisho z’Umushumba Gedeon Kayoni mu giterane cy’abamama
Minembwe Capital News (MCN)
Mu giterane cy’abamama cyateguwe na All National Assembly of God, Umukozi w’Imana, Umushumba Gedeon Kayoni, yatanze inyigisho zishingiye ku nsanganyamatsiko igira iti: “Abacengenzi mu miryango mu nzu y’Imana.”
Iki giterane cyatangiye ku wa Kane, gisozwa uyu munsi ku Cyumweru, kibera ku cyicaro gikuru cya All National Assembly of God muri Uganda. Abamama bari bateraniye hamwe mu bihe byo gusenga, kwigishwa no kungurana ibitekerezo ku bibazo bireba imiryango, ndetse n’uruhare rw’ababyeyi mu kuyubaka.
Mu nyigisho ze, Umushumba Gedeon Kayoni yifashishije Abacamanza 5:20-21, asobanura uburyo ibintu bimwe bishobora kuba nk’“imvura y’ibiza, imiyaga isenya n’imivu” mu buzima bw’imiryango, iyo bidakumiriwe hakiri kare.
Yagaragaje ko, nk’uko ibiza bishobora gusenya amazu n’ibikorwa by’abantu, hari n’imyitwarire n’ibibazo bishobora gusenya urugo, gutandukanya abashakanye ndetse bikagira n’ingaruka ku bana.
Umushumba Kayoni yasabye Abakristo, by’umwihariko abashakanye, kumenya “abacengenzi” bashobora kwinjira mu muryango no kubirinda hakiri kare, kugira ngo imiryango ikomeze kuba ahantu harangwa n’amahoro, urukundo, kubahana no kurera neza abana.
Ibintu 11 Umushumba Gedeon Kayoni yagaragaje nk’ibifasha kurinda imiryango
1. Gusezerana imbere y’Imana na Leta
Umushumba Kayoni yashimangiye ko umugore n’umugabo bagomba gusezerana imbere y’Imana ndetse na Leta, kugira ngo umubano wabo ugire ishingiro rikomeye kandi uhabwe agaciro n’amategeko.
Yagaragaje ko kubaka urugo rushingiye ku isezerano ari intambwe ikomeye mu kurufasha gukomera no kurindwa ibishobora kurusenya.
2. Kumenya kurinda no kwita ku rugo
Umushumba Kayoni yasabye abashakanye kutaba abantu batita ku nshingano zabo zo mu rugo. Yashimangiye ko buri wese agomba kumenya inshingano afite no kuzisohoza neza, kuko kutita ku rugo bishobora gutuma rutakaza umurongo n’ubusabane.
3. Kugira isuku no kwita ku isuku y’urugo
Yagaragaje ko isuku ari kimwe mu bintu bishobora kugira uruhare mu kubaka urugo. Abagize umuryango bakwiye kwita ku isuku y’umubiri, imyambaro, aho batuye ndetse n’ibindi bibaranga.
4. Kwirinda ibinyobwa bisindisha
Umushumba Kayoni yasabye Abakristo kwirinda ubusinzi n’ibinyobwa bisindisha, avuga ko bishobora guteza ibibazo mu muryango, birimo amakimbirane, gutakaza inshingano no gufata ibyemezo bidatekerejweho.
5. Kwirinda kuba indashima
Yashimangiye ko gushimira uwo mubana ari ingenzi mu kubaka umubano ukomeye. Abashakanye bakwiye kumenya kubona ibyiza mugenzi wabo akora bakabimushimira, aho guhora bibanda ku makosa ye gusa.
6. Kubabarirana
Umushumba Kayoni yashimangiye ko kubabarirana ari kimwe mu bintu bifasha imiryango kudasenyuka.
Yagaragaje ko amakosa ashobora kubaho mu buzima bw’abashakanye, ariko ko kutababarirana no gukomeza kubika inzika bishobora guhinduka umusingi w’amakimbirane ahora yiyongera.
7. Kumenya kugenga amarangamutima
Yasabye abashakanye kumenya kugenga amarangamutima yabo, cyane cyane mu gihe cy’uburakari cyangwa kutumvikana.
Yibukije ko umuntu udashobora kugenga amarangamutima ye ashobora kuvuga cyangwa gukora ibintu bishobora gukomeretsa mugenzi we, bikagira ingaruka ndende ku muryango.
8. Kwirinda kugereranya uwo mwashakanye n’abandi
Umushumba Kayoni yasabye abashakanye kwirinda kugereranya uwo bashakanye n’abandi bantu.
Yagaragaje ko amagambo yo kugereranya ashobora gutera agahinda, gutesha agaciro uwo mubana no kubiba inzangano mu muryango.
9. Kwirinda gutsimbarara ku mico itajyanye n’igihe
Yasabye imiryango kumenya guhinduka no kwakira ibihe bishya, aho gutsimbarara ku myitwarire cyangwa imico itagifasha kubaka urugo.
Yashimangiye ko kubaka umuryango ukomeye bisaba ubwenge, kumva ibihe no kumenya ibyo umuntu akwiriye kuvugurura mu myitwarire ye.
10. Kwirinda kuba imbata y’ikoranabuhanga
Mu bindi bishobora kubangamira imibanire y’abagize umuryango, Umushumba Kayoni yavuze ku gukoresha nabi ikoranabuhanga.
Yasabye abashakanye kwirinda kuba imbata za telefoni n’imbuga nkoranyambaga ku buryo bibatwara umwanya wagakwiye guhabwa abo mu rugo.
11. Kumenya gucunga neza umutungo w’urugo
Yasoje agaragaza ko imicungire y’umutungo ari ingenzi cyane mu kubaka umuryango uhamye.
Yasabye abashakanye kumenya gucunga neza umutungo w’urugo, kugira gahunda y’imikoreshereze y’amafaranga no kwirinda imyitwarire ishobora guteza amakimbirane ashingiye ku mutungo.
Umuryango usabwa kurindwa no kubakwa buri munsi
Mu butumwa bwe, Umushumba Gedeon Kayoni yibukije abitabiriye igiterane ko urugo rutubakwa umunsi umwe, ahubwo ko rusaba kwitabwaho, kubahana, kubabarirana, kuvugana no gufatanya buri munsi.
Yagaragaje ko iyo abashakanye bamenye ibishobora kuba “abacengenzi” b’ingo zabo kandi bagafata ingamba zo kubirwanya hakiri kare, bishobora gufasha imiryango gukomeza kugira ituze n’ubumwe.
Izi nyigisho zatanzwe mu gihe cy’igiterane cy’abamama cya All National Assembly of God, cyabereye ku cyicaro gikuru cy’iri torero muri Uganda. Iki giterane cyatangiye ku wa Kane, gisozwa uyu munsi ku Cyumweru.
Umushumba Gedeon Kayoni yasabye abitabiriye gukomeza kugira uruhare mu kubaka imiryango ikomeye, kuko umuryango uhamye ari umwe mu nkingi zikomeye z’itorero ndetse n’umuryango mugari.
